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The other side of mirror.

My mother sitting on a couch talking about her day and here I am busy in the world that doesn't exist in reality.
What is reality? Honestly, I don't even know that anymore. We have created an alter ego online that is shouting its lungs out about how insecure we are about ourselves and how unstable our relations have become with the real world!
Who are we? What is the purpose of our existence? What is our value in this endless universe? My answer would be "we are here to serve a greater purpose then publishing our lives online". Some of you might ask " what is that greater purpose?" To that I will say "the greatest purpose of our existence is to be humans not characters of some stimulation game".
Humans are the most advance and civilized mammals, who are in a constant need of emotional support, love, care and protection of each other and they have a constant hunger for knowledge.
So happened why have we stopped caring about each other? Where is that hunger to know things? Where is our curiosity? Why are we so indulged in the alter realities that we have created online? I would like to define the reason in one word, "EGO"
This term has been exploited for so many years that we feel like we have to have some ego. But what if I tell you that ego is nothing but a force that stops a human to go wild. Then why do our egos get hurt so easily? Why do we go wild when someone do wrong to us? Aren't we suppose to act civilized and well trained pets of our minds? Trust me ego is nothing that could get hurt so easily. Its the element that makes us humans.
There is a difference between ego and self-respect. Self-respect is the respect that you have for yourself. So respect yourself and don't expect anything from the people around you but keep one thing in mind, when you start respecting yourself, you will start respecting others hence earning respect from others.
Back to the why are we so distant in reality and so close in alternate realities? Because among your friends online you are constantly adoring and respecting their lives without any expectations and they are doing the same. But in reality the differences can hit us hard! That's when we need to respect and accept others without any expectations.
At the end we all are here, we are alive, we can feel, we can learn and we should start appreciating these facts and interact with each others in reality not in alternative reality.
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